Self Love for Beginners 💗💗💗💗💗💗

                                                   

Hi Blog I am Pragna , I am here to make you more mind full , and get you on a practical note , to feel more  content with your life . I am talking about the practical tips at a time on where you can just reflect my blog , " I love me " ..... 

It may or may not  be pleasing to all my readers , but  believing in that " we cant rise unless we fall " , so with all hope and courage  I penned  down my views .  

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                                                                                                              September  6th , 2020 

Self Love for Beginners 💗💗💗💗💗💗

If only...Ah... , I generally have a very bad habit of making the situations and  deeds to happen in my life " IF ONLY " ..... yeah , i wonder this conditional statement have occupied  through out  my life making all my emotions  and decisions ,  Bi conditional . But  many a times i wonder what if .....  Love myself is only if ?

 sounds bit tricky ? “Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good  we often  might win, by fearing to attempt.”

Hold on , do you feel yourself worthy , valuable , deserving of receiving  the best in life and  attracting all the   positive vibes  around you  like a MAGNET !!!...(.ha ha..... ) . Do you ever think its just one thought to boost up your self and get you on the right track  .  

Many a times I identified getting myself over with crowd simply being a "Dead fish going on with the flow "and never realised that I was a poor little lamb who lost my way .  

Now churning my mind constantly reminding myself what really good meant to me , is  it something where I can get   within traces  blessed by God or something that need to go grab out of my comfort zone ........

Yeah , definitely Self Love needs introspection .  To just fill in gap__ " what you want to be rather than  what you are " .

 Definitely it doesn't happen in a One Blow Of Whistle , and genuinely I have to be my Bad ass toast master .

Hey fish are you on my hook ? 

My sail would hopefully help you to have happy self love drive . 

Most of our mouth waters  for the pie of  butterscotch sitting on the whole Cake ...........(whoosh !!!!!)  

Remembering author who stated " Love is blind " .... And it has its own means to find its goodness ,  always memorise that :  

{“Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we often  might win, by fearing to attempt.”}

                                                                                                             -William Shakespeare 

Self love throws a challenge at the crux , specially in this time of uncertainty and stress . Travelling over the bumpy and curvy road  and  getting over the true  essence  and enjoy its aroma ,  definitely needs to find  ways to practice  Self -Love and be " Be Good to yourself".  

Hey, here i am your  Poor little lamb back to help you  to find 10 Different ways to get over self - doubt and move further , being a confident soul . 

1. Give  yourself a  little Hug 

  Every morning your awesome soul needs a tight hug , Don't just let your mind  out of  control with flow of  thoughts . 

Hug me 

2. Say "NO" 

Do not hesitate to say no to your negative thoughts which rule over your emotions and don't let them spin around from a whisper to a stream of discouragement . So when your inner doubts bubble up , be quick . Instead  shout back a big "NO" ...... 

3.  Propose yourself everyday 

I learnt to re - teach  my self  to love me again  , by making  small changes in my daily routine   ,  repainting colours  with simple life hacks . Of course Social media is a helping hand ever .   Beauty of Self love is to last forever without any rejection and it's  just to  synchronise  the way I feel and the way I act . So my fish  lets propose love and embrace   most beautiful souls  rather than craving for toxic ones. 

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4. Let Go 

Letting go your past trauma , wounds and those which serves no good for you and your well being is a true sign of  self love . Ever you feel getting attached to those who don t care ,  the toxic relationships and limitations  that you set for yourself , its not that easy to let it out ..... but then realising self worth and practising self love is must . 

5. Stop caring what other people think 

 I sometimes still feel like carrying toxic shame and intense anxiety of what other people think . Dealing with  criticism all this while finally I had a bond with my-self which suddenly changed my way of life.

 A big "NO" to others opinions and discouraging statements ,  helped open  knocking doors of opportunities  to find  myself .......

(And it changed everything ) :::::::::::::::::::

6. Be Mindful 

People Who have much love for themself , know there feelings, how they think and what exactly they want , so they make it most to serve whats good for them . Living exactly the way  you want to is something most admirable right ? 

7. Set Boundaries 

We might have listened to the saying that " Anything too much serves for No Good " , Absolutely  when  we give too much to others  definitely it  lands  us on place of bitterness and leave us unidentified , so dear fish be ware before twist your curly tail and reach on surface of white , Men with Nets,  are awaiting . 

8. Practice Good Self - Care 

Hey, Fish  its time for you to paddle your scales , wink your tail and flexible your body . Known to be source of rich  Protein , and nutritious , now its how much you love yourself  more , when you take better care of your basic needs . So, wait not lets exercise through these white bubbles. 

9. Protect Yourself 

Genuinely Sharks  never let space for , Juvenile indeed wide open there mouths , so be cautious and protect yourself dear  tiny . Be ware of your Frenemies WOW here i love this term ,  there isn't enough time to waste you time , on those who dont want swim ahead .

 

10. Forgive Yourself 

Oh!! No ): You never need to be hard on yourself every time , and its really very important to practice forgive few , in your race there might be times when accidentally cut there fins with your rough turn , but make sure you apologise and forgive , your self  . It all needs practice to learn and grow from your mistakes , when your race becomes hard .  

 So , I am gonna attach some fascinating podcasts to make my fish enjoy its  swim . 

Hey , folk fish here I attach a podcast  which is  Mantra  to enlighten you.....  

"I am Glad to be Meeee..... and I Love Myself !!!! " enjoy your swim with hints of foam and shadow. 

https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy8xOTAzMjdkMC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw/episode/YWM1NDg1OWEtM2RmNy00MjY2LWEwZjgtNWQ0MDVjNmEwNTlh?ep=14 self love

Wrapping up my sail ,  I would like to feed my fish with these  useful tips to love itself  and get more useful insights on Self love ...............I love me Do You ? 

Stepping into surfing up and down, I would like my fish to carry on the enthusiasm to surf further , meanwhile here i hope to stay healthy . 

                                                                       ( :Thank You ❤❤❤❤